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Arts: The bestselling novelist is a strong believer in good manners, a semibeliever in religion, and unequivocal in his opinions about abortion. Author John Irving always plays by the rules -- his own.

May/June 1997 Issue


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Even John Irving's mother has come to expect the lurid elements of her son's work. "Christ! Another dildo?" she exclaimed when presented with an excerpt from the writer's novel-in-progress, A Widow for One Year. "I tried to explain to her that there were differences among dildos, and that a dildo from a previous novel and a current novel are not the same," Irving said on the West Coast leg of a recent tour introducing his book (as yet without a publisher) and the upcoming film productions of The Cider House Rules and A Son of the Circus.

Irving eschews Ernest Hemingway's approach: Write what you know. This conviction has left him free to explore life beyond the pale: In The World According to Garp, a group of women cut out their tongues in empathy for a rape victim; in The Hotel New Hampshire, a brother and sister enjoy an incestuous relationship; and the pint-sized Christ figure in A Prayer for Owen Meany saws off his best friend's trigger finger to make him ineligible to fight in Vietnam.

The 55-year-old New England native is opinionated and passionate about his métiers -- writing and wrestling -- and he uses each to explore the world of rules, manners, and civility, and the consequences of breaking social codes.

Q: You view censorship as an oppressive, puritanical practice. Considering the violence in your books, you clearly have a stake in this issue.

A: You can't say you're going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it -- and reward it in all manner of ways.

Moreover, it's magical thinking to imagine that the reason unspeakable things are being perpetrated by younger and younger people is that they've fallen under the influence of seductive, lascivious, prurient, and violent material in books, films, television.

It seems to me that a great deal of this type of censorship has to do with absolving parents of responsibility -- parents who just plop their kids in front of the television and leave them there hour upon hour.

If you feel so strongly about what's on television, don't have one. If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don't have one. But we are a country that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck. {publish-page-break}

Q: Are you yourself religious?

A: You know, if you asked me one day, I might say, "Well, sometimes I feel a little bit religious." If you asked me another day, I'd just say flat out, "No."

Q: But you had a fairly religious upbringing, didn't you?

A: I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn't terribly painful. I thought some of the stories were neat; I liked some of the liturgy and some of the songs. If you're a writer you have some inclination to pay attention. I didn't just tune it out and think about baseball. So, it had an effect on me. I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions. What was even more germane was my study of the history of religion. It was one of the few things in school I was fascinated by.

Q: In your memoir "The Imaginary Girlfriend" you write of wrestling: "I've always admired the rule that holds you responsible, if you lift your opponent off the mat, for your opponent's safe return." Does this reflect your desire for a civilized world where there are rules and values?

A: Yeah. I'm a very old-fashioned novelist. I write 19th-century novels, where a lot of rules apply. I believe in plot, in development of character, in the effect of the passage of time, in a good story -- better than something you might find in the newspaper. And I believe a novel should be as complicated and involved as you're capable of making it.

Q: Do you think rules of behavior should apply in the wider world as well?

A: I'm not at all contemporary, not even modern, and the fact that I would be so quaintly attracted to that wrestling rule makes me, I suppose, seem all the more old-fashioned. But I was brought up in a community, in a family that valued such things as good manners, and I still do. I believe in rules of behavior, and I'm quite interested in stories about the consequences of breaking those rules.

Q: The National Women's Political Caucus gave you a Good Guy award for furthering the advancement of women with The Cider House Rules. Did you write it intending to make a statement about abortion?

A: You don't want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character. Before I began The Cider House Rules, I thought I wanted to write about a father-son relationship that was closer, more conflicted, and ultimately more loving, than most. Then I began to think of a relationship between an old orphanage director and an unadoptable orphan -- a kid who goes out into the world and fails and keeps coming back, so that the old guy ends up with someone he's got to keep.

In my research I suddenly saw that the doctors in those orphanage hospitals were far more likely to perform abortions than other legitimate doctors, because they knew firsthand what happened to the kids who were left behind. Who else would be sympathetic? Who else would risk his profession to perform this illegal procedure? Not some moron like Newt Gingrich asking for the return of orphanages, but someone who really knew what orphanages were like and how sad the stories involving the kids were.

Q: What are your views on abortion?

A: I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, "I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure." It doesn't bother me if people feel that way. But when you legislate personal belief, you're in violation of freedom of religion. The Catholic Church may espouse its opinion on abortion to the members of its congregation. But they are in violation of separation of church and state when they try to proselytize their abortion politics on people who are not Catholics.

Q: You consider yourself old-fashioned. Yet you support people's right to live their lives without imposition, and you explore social taboos in your books. Where did this multifaceted worldview come from?

A: Ted Seabrooke, my wrestling coach, had a kind of Nietzschean effect on me in terms of not just his estimation of my limited abilities, but his decidedly philosophical stance about how to conduct your life, what you should do to compensate for your limitations. This was essential to me, both as a student -- and not a good one -- and as a wrestler who was not a natural athlete but who had found something he loved.



 

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This helped me a lot with my English project and I love John Irving!!
Posted by:Mo'niqueMay 27, 2007 5:21:47 PMRespond ^
It just now took me two and a half days of constant reading to finish my first John Irving novel, "A Prayer for Owen Meany"; it blew me away. Irving is so very smart, funny, and insightful. This book was published in 1989 and here it is 2007, WHAT TOOK ME SO LONG? I've just read a few internet reviews and they seemed to show Irvings true character. Now I'll have to read all his writings because he's such a treasure.
Posted by:Dorothy BoboJune 20, 2007 12:23:27 PMRespond ^
I read John Irving's novel A Prayer for Owen Meany as a teenager. I found the language that was used in the book disgusting. It makes the book seem trashy and if the author thinks that everyone talks like that, they are wrong.
Posted by:LizJuly 5, 2007 5:06:34 PMRespond ^
Owen Meany is an unbelievable novel.(read it 5 times- cried every time)Try teaching high school students-they DO use that kind of language. John Irving is by far my favorite author. He pulls the reader into the story and makes the characters real. I am building my collection of his books- have 10 so far.
Posted by:JanineJuly 6, 2007 12:05:33 AMRespond ^
John you are my favorite author of all time way to go
Posted by:jesseJuly 9, 2007 7:24:15 AMRespond ^
I almost finished with Until I Find You and it's incredible. He has some fantastic characters and he poses some interesting moral questions.
Posted by:MaryJuly 18, 2007 4:16:03 PMRespond ^
I have just finished A PRAYER FOR OWEN MEANY and also cannot believe it took me so long! And since I was born in 1942, everything is so very familiar. An enthralling story, and my favourite of all John Irving's books that I have read.
Posted by:ReneJuly 26, 2007 6:49:35 PMRespond ^
I've read everything Mr. Irving has written that's been published. He is America's best writer, bar none. His realism hits all of us a little too hard, but it's the unvarnished truth. I started, like many of us, with GARP, which I've read at least 5 times. I felt a vicarious bit of familiarity when I read, as a native Pittsburgher, that he wrestled for Pitt. His insight and character development are what attract me most. My favorite...THE CIDER HOUSE RULES. His theme to "be of use", stunning in it's simplicity, should be obvious to most people, but,nowadays,so necessary to impart. And I agree with Janine's comment...today's children DO talk like that. Curious how Mr. Irving has tapped into that language so effectively. My question...WHEN IS THE NEXT BOOK COMING?
Posted by:DonAugust 4, 2007 9:21:11 AMRespond ^
I think that a Widow for One Year is Irving's most underrated book. All Irving fans should read it.
Posted by:LeightonAugust 8, 2007 1:52:58 PMRespond ^
Back in my college years, 20 years ago, I studied Literature, which included a short course on Irving.This was at the time that Garp has just come out. My question is this; and I should KNOW this, but I've forgotten: What is the "meaning" of Irving's use of bears in his earlier works?? Is this an intentional device of his or not?
Posted by:EtcaAugust 9, 2007 11:26:37 PMRespond ^
we so need to listen to John Irving; manners and the safe return of the wrestler metaphor AND to everything Owen Meany is teaching us.
Posted by:shelleyAugust 18, 2007 2:08:31 PMRespond ^
Me he quedado asombrado de lo mal traducido que está en texto original.
Posted by:Jaime SalvatierraAugust 24, 2007 4:13:10 AMRespond ^
I would give anything for a complete hard-cover collection of Mr. Irving's works. Except my cat, my computer, my extension ladder, my lime-green Nikes. And whatever is left of the Merlot. I'll be needing those things tomorrow.
Posted by:ShannenAugust 26, 2007 10:12:48 PMRespond ^
Tom DeLay 4 EVER!
Posted by:The HammerAugust 27, 2007 2:21:19 PMRespond ^
John irving your righting sucks, but this sight helped me.
Posted by:de AngeloSeptember 3, 2007 12:34:30 PMRespond ^
Just finished Garp 'again' and am a huge fan of Owen Meany too! I love all his books cause they take the reader to places that we have not thought of before or would not say outloud. He is definitely a repeat offender in my books!
Posted by:moondogsOctober 7, 2007 1:25:06 AMRespond ^
I love John Irving. I am reading Unitl I Find You right now and it is amazing. Almost as good as a Prayer for Owen Meany. I named ny second son Owen the book effected me so much. I always try to read slow and savor his books. I always feel like you do after you lose a friend when the novels ends. Mr. Irving writes characters like no other. You become so attached and involved in what happens to them that you don't ever want them to go away. I heard the author speak once in Colorado. The man is very smart and articulate. A true artist and writer!!! He writes with a vulnerability few possess and are able to express. Without a doubt my favorite author of all time.
Posted by:Leigh Ann BurchellOctober 9, 2007 9:10:40 AMRespond ^
DITTO!
Posted by:wordaddictOctober 18, 2007 2:16:14 PMRespond ^
Responding to Liz's comment of July 5, 2007: You should read The World According to Garp.
Posted by:KatyOctober 19, 2007 10:56:23 AMRespond ^
I have read Cider House rules & Owen Meany & thoroughly enjoyed both. What others do you recommend? Have also just discovered William Trevor - author even better than Mr Irving.
Posted by:valerieNovember 3, 2007 1:07:36 AMRespond ^
I just finished my first Irving book, The World According to Garp. Mr. Irving is so like his character of T S Garp as far as the way that he seems to draw from his personal experience, then weave stories far more fantastic (and well phrased) than the real thing ever was or could have been. I'll be reading more!
Posted by:Cally!November 11, 2007 8:14:04 PMRespond ^
By righting, do you mean some philosophical view that Irving has where one would "right" certain wrongs they encounter, or are you more of the "I don't know how to spell writing, so I will criticize people who do."?
Posted by:BrentDecember 5, 2007 6:22:14 PMRespond ^
What are the books you have written?
Posted by:KelseyDecember 31, 2007 6:30:14 PMRespond ^
Brent - You are RIGHT! As Homer Wells might say...and you can WRITE! Which is better yet...Thank you for your enlightened response to de Ignoramus - I was tempted to go(off)in a different direction altogether.
Posted by:ShannenJanuary 3, 2008 7:06:59 PMRespond ^
I deeply appreciate your positions, which are not dissimilar to mine. Here's an interesting observation of mine. I live on a sailboat, currently in Mexico. Consequently, I know many other people who live on sailboats and who have done real serious crusing. Almost unanimously, they despise George Bush and republican conservatives and their policies. Can you explain this? pete6021@aol.com
Posted by:Pete KantorJanuary 4, 2008 10:14:53 AMRespond ^
For Valerie: I would recommend Irving's "Son Of The Circus". As always, you'll be drawn into a world you probably didn't know existed. Most novelists are proficient at character development, but no other creates the kinds of literary worlds that Irving does. You'll go away humming the scenery.
Posted by:DennyJanuary 15, 2008 1:23:29 PMRespond ^
I just finished Until I Find You, my very first John Irving novel and I can't wait to read more. I saw John Irving at Radio City Music Hall with JK Rowling and Stephen King and really liked his reading of Owen Meany. I will read that one next.
Posted by:IvyJanuary 31, 2008 3:54:08 PMRespond ^
what is it about john Irving and Bears??
Posted by:NinaFebruary 2, 2008 5:47:53 AMRespond ^
For 20+years I've loved John Irving. First Garp, then Hotel New Hampshire, then Setting Free the Bears.... (And if you don't understand about the bears, maybe you should move on.) I've waited to inhale each new novel - Ciderhouse, Owen Meany, Widow for One Year, Fourth Hand, and I think THE BEST "Until I Find You." It still makes my heart happy to think about each story, and how my "life- perspective" is sweeter for having read it. His writing is so on-point about life's patterns and all its mundane or hysterical absurdities, joys and sorrows, and the hardships and what growing up seemed like when I was doing it. I will always love John Irving.
Posted by:AlexFebruary 9, 2008 8:24:15 AMRespond ^
Ive been a fan of John Irving for many years. Just saw the movie version of Hotel New Hampshire and how shallow it is (because of time restraints, I think) and wonder if anyone else thinks this is deserving of a mini series, considering the fact that there are less restrictions now on what subjects can, and should, be addressed. The movie made it a quirky family, the book was about a quirky family that reflected a lot of common social stigmas from homosexuality to political unrest to -------etc!
Posted by:IcePatrickFebruary 20, 2008 12:31:12 AMRespond ^
It appears that your spelling sucks, de angelo.

John Irving is wonderful. I think Garp is my favorite, although I think Widow For One Year, Owen Meany, Hotel New Hampshire, cider House, and Until I Find You are magic.
Posted by:HeeeeeeeyFebruary 25, 2008 8:06:08 PMRespond ^
i agree with de angelo. this sight helps. his writing, not too great
Posted by:tylerMarch 10, 2008 7:53:57 AMRespond ^
John Irving sucks
Posted by:TylerMarch 10, 2008 8:05:52 AMRespond ^
is john irving still alive?
Posted by:tylerMarch 10, 2008 8:06:32 AMRespond ^
john irving is a loser that writes books for living....
Posted by:tylerMarch 10, 2008 8:10:57 AMRespond ^
call 1-413-789-7460
Posted by:tylerMarch 10, 2008 8:11:54 AMRespond ^
tyler rocks and im in english class
Posted by:tylerMarch 10, 2008 8:12:43 AMRespond ^
I loved Irving's books with a passion when I was younger. 'read them all up to & including Owen Meany, then something happened and I stopped reading them for a long time. 'think I'd ODed on his eccentric characters.
Reading some of these comments has given me JI flashbacks and I'm going to go out and buy the circus one and give him another try.
My favourite author over the last couple of years has been Patrick O'Brian.
I have a different view from John on abortion but that wouldn't stop me enjoying his writing. The sadness of stories of orphans lives is real; sadness seems to be unavoidable in this life in my experience, but I wouldn't want to bail out early and miss the main event. How this life seems at any time depends on the context. I don't know Newt Gingrich but I wouldn't want to call him a moron before I understood the context he's looking thru.
Posted by:AnthonyMarch 17, 2008 5:29:44 AMRespond ^
THE WORLD ACCORDING TO GARP, A PRAYER FOR OWEN MEANY AND NOW UNTIL I FIND YOU ARE MY FAVORITE JOHN IRVING BOOKS. THE CHARACTERS STAY WITH ME AND I MISS THEM AFTER I FINISH THE BOOKS.
Posted by:CARP;March 19, 2008 5:46:17 PMRespond ^
I also have read everything Irving has written and I am a huge fan. He has mastered the art of creating characters. Cider House, Garp, and Hotel NH are my favs. Melony is one of my favorite characters I thought she was for sure a "hero".
Posted by:ChristiApril 1, 2008 8:23:34 PMRespond ^
I think tyler needs to get a life...
Posted by:SarahApril 2, 2008 4:01:32 PMRespond ^
If you love John Irving's novels, I think you should try reading David Munroe. His characters are real, sympathetic and humorous. You can sample his writing at www.davidmunroe.com.
Posted by:MaggieApril 30, 2008 12:32:43 PMRespond ^
I have loved John Irvings books for a long, long time. Movies don't tend to do them justice, really. I agree with the others who say they miss the characters when the book is over--like the loss of a friend.
Posted by:beagarrMay 12, 2008 5:01:14 PMRespond ^
Irving is certainly a great American writer, I am a huge fan but let's not get giddy. Owen Meany Was his last great novel, Son of the Circus is un- readable, Fourth Hand was solid good entertaining, Widow the first third was brilliant, Until I Found you was excellent but suffered from sections that were just boring. I will continue ot read and re read everything he has written but let's not cannonize just yet.
Posted by:TerryMay 24, 2008 12:41:16 PMRespond ^
I just finished "A Widow for One Year". I do not read much since I sobered up. The problem I found with Widow was the treatment of the characters of Eddie and Ruth ~ as youngsters in 1958 they are treated sympathetically but as they age they are treated less sympathetically probably because they grow up but (comic/Eddie)(caustic/Ruth) jarred me ~ until Ruth has her "life changing event" which I hoped Irving would delve into more deeply. You know, what she finally felt and thought and how she looked on her former life and her mistakes and the misfortune of the murder ~ her pain... maybe some giving back ~ With poor Eddie ~ I started out loving the kid and then just felt sorry for him. I felt Marion and Ted were the best characters. Marion's gut wrenching actions were explored and the degree of trauma she felt was very real to me. Irving writes a beautiful tapestry. I wish I could write like that. This book kinda give you a formula which is quite interesting and even teachy sometimes. Good Stuff. I'll read more now!
Posted by:Jack KoveJune 8, 2008 1:54:33 PMRespond ^
this book was very boring and i didnt like it
Posted by:leannJuly 19, 2008 1:26:09 PMRespond ^
it helped me too
Posted by:leannJuly 19, 2008 1:27:22 PMRespond ^

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