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Will Gay Marriage Help McCain?

News: Now that same-sex love is legal in California, Connecticut, and Massachusetts, should Obama brace for a ballot backlash?

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In February 2004, San Francisco mayor Gavin Newsom began officiating same-sex weddings on the steps of City Hall. Over the next month, more than 4,000 couples tied the knot in defiance of a state referendum that had banned gay marriage in California in 2000. Newsom says he challenged the law out of a sense of "moral obligation." But his move awakened a sense of moral outrage among Republicans, who raced to put anti-gay-marriage initiatives on the ballot in 11 states. After John Kerry lost in November, some Democrats suggested that the specter of gay marriage had thrown the contest to George W. Bush. "I believe it did energize a very conservative vote," Sen. Dianne Feinstein (D-Calif.) said immediately after the election. "It gave them a position to rally around. The whole issue has just been too much, too fast, too soon."

Now that the California Supreme Court has legalized gay marriage, should Barack Obama brace for another round of backlash at the ballot box? Bill Whalen, a Republican media consultant and a research fellow at Stanford's Hoover Institution, describes gay marriage as a "gift" to John McCain. The California ruling is "going to make people mad," says Carrie Gordon Earll, a policy analyst for Focus on the Family. Both predict that Christian conservatives in California, Florida, and Arizona will flock to the polls to back constitutional amendments that ban gay marriage. They also expect voters in other states to think twice about voting for an Illinois senator who supports the California ruling and says he wants to repeal the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which would open the door for married gay couples to sue for legal recognition in any state.

However, for many Americans, gay marriage may not seem as frightening as it did four short years ago. "You have a country that is evolving pretty quickly on these issues," argues Chris Lehane, former communications director for the Kerry campaign. It's not just the popularity of shows like Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. Anti-discrimination laws have afforded gays a new degree of safety and visibility in the workplace and acclimated more straights to the idea of same-sex relationships. While 63 percent of Americans opposed legalizing gay marriage four years ago, recently 63 percent told USA Today that same-sex marriage should be "strictly a private decision."

To be sure, the gop strategy isn't about reversing trends, but mobilizing the base. Unlike Bush in 2004, McCain could have a hard time prodding social conservatives to the polls, and gay marriage just might help. John Stemberger, an attorney who's the lead backer of the Florida ban, says conservatives in the swing state "feel like there is something they can really get behind." Yet it's unclear that this will translate into votes for McCain. This month, 55 percent of Florida voters said they supported the ban; only 46 percent said they'd vote for McCain. Pastor Roland Comellas of the New Testament Worship Center in Tampa supports the measure, "but we're more concerned about the economy," he says. Last year, Florida's moderate Republican governor, Charlie Crist, moved to yank his state party's funding for the measure and proclaimed himself "a live-and-let-live kind of guy."

The tacit support for gays by prominent Republicans such as Crist and California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger plus the recent defeat of anti-gay-marriage amendments in Iowa and Indiana suggest that opposition to gay marriage may no longer be a slam dunk for the gop. "McCain has gone to such pains to try to distance himself from Bush and to make clear that he represents a different kind of politics that he's ultimately going to be forced to address this," Lehane says. "Either he waffles on it, which just irritates everyone; he takes the conservative position, which undermines his brand; or he takes a more open-minded, progressive view of the world, and he really hurts his base. What worked great in 2004 doesn't work so well in 2008."

Both McCain and Obama have said that marriage should be "between a man and a woman" and that the states should decide the issue for themselves. But McCain voted for the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, and in 2006 he campaigned for an unsuccessful gay marriage ban in Arizona. He also says he supports the California anti-gay-marriage initiative. According to Focus on the Family's Earll, McCain's record will resonate in the 27 states whose constitutional bans could be overturned by Obama-appointed "activist judges."

But even if a Democratic Congress repealed the Defense of Marriage Act, the review of state laws would still fall to the Supreme Court. As a result, some conservatives say they no longer see the spread of gay marriage as the imminent threat they did in 2004. "I think Virginians feel very confident about our situation for the most part," says Victoria Cobb, president of the Family Foundation of Virginia, which pushed through a gay marriage ban in 2006, "and so we are more focused on other issues." In other words, recent victories in rolling back gay marriage may make it less of an issue in 2008.

Still, opinions of gay marriage are volatile. Throughout the summer the California gay marriage ban had trailed in the polls, only to leap ahead by 10 points early this month after attack ads painted the legalization of gay marriage as dictatorial and intrusive. The most striking flip was among young voters. Typically stalwart supporters of gay marriage, they now favor banning it by a 14-point margin, according to the poll, which was conducted by SurveyUSA on October 6th and has a 4 percent margin of error.

Yet young voters are notoriously difficult to poll, making the larger trend more instructive: in 1996 support for gay marriage among the under-30 set stood at 42 percent, in 2004 at 46 percent, and in May of this year at 52 percent, according to the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life. In the long run, "the issue breaks along generational lines," notes Whalen. Take for example Pete Knight, the Republican state senator who wrote California's gay marriage ban. His son, David, married his partner in San Francisco in 2004. This year, Whalen says, Obama might bring out enough young voters to uphold gay marriage in California. (Obama is expected to beat McCain in the state by a double-digit margin.)

Plus, it's not even a sure thing that gay marriage sank the Dems in 2004. Kerry pollster Mark Mellman has found that anti-gay-marriage ballot initiatives didn't boost voter turnout for either party. Moreover, political scientists at mit found that Bush's share of the 2004 vote increased in most battleground states, but not the three that had gay marriage bans on the ballot. Stephen Ansolabehere, one of the study's authors, concludes that the gay marriage referenda may have given Kerry a bump. "That suggests there might even be some sort of backlash against this kind of politics," he notes.

During last month's vice presidential debate, the GOP took a less confrontational tack. Sarah Palin cited no differences from Joe Biden gay rights and even sought to temper her opposition to gay marriage with a shout out to her "very dear friends who do not agree with me on this issue." The GOP’s more conciliatory approach indicates that gay marriage might soon play very differently. "Five years from now, ten years from now," predicts Lehane, "you are going to have a bunch of people trying to explain their hypocrisy on this."

For the time being, however, mayor Newsom’s more aggressive support for gay marriage remains ahead of its time—if not in substance, than at least in style. After the California Supreme Court upheld gay marriage this year, the exultant mayor and soon-to-be gubernatorial candidate mocked his adversaries in speech on the steps of city hall. Later edited and re-broadcast by gay marriage foes as a highly effective attack ad, his words will prove famously prescient or famously premature: "It's inevitable, this door's wide open now, it’s gonna happen, whether you like it or not," Newsom said of gay marriage. "This is the future, and it's now."

Editor's note: An earlier version of this story ran in the September/October 2008 issue of Mother Jones.

Josh Harkinson is a reporter at Mother Jones.

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It's a sad state when people insist that some of their fellow citizens must be second class citizens and it becomes a political issue. It's reality on the ground but when will our country take the Constitution to heart. This needs to go the Supreme court so that they will have to decide to federally mandate that everyone has equal rights. And take this issue right out of politics and put it where it belongs, as a matter of justice.
Posted by:nakisOctober 10, 2008 12:18:57 PMRespond ^
It is an interesting idea that the rush to push through equal marriage may have caused a backlash that Republicans were able to exploit ... but it still feels so dirty - as if a group of people saw a chance for equality, were punished with bans on that equality, and then blamed for facilitating four more years of Bush. Seems a little simplistic and easy ... "Oh, if those gays had just dealt with it for a little while longer..."

Hopefully this is a non-issue in 2008, which I know is asking a lot because the issue of equal marriage is emotional for both sides.
Posted by:CleanNeedlesSaveLivesOctober 10, 2008 12:25:57 PMRespond ^
The sub-title, "Now that same sex love is legal..." is blatantly incorrect. Same sex love was already legal--now same sex marriage is legal in CA (and MA and CT). It should be the CT legislature that passes laws, not an activist court. Even better is the CA decision to let the people vote on the issue (although who knows if the court would permit the people to decide if they vote to not permit same sex marriage). This should be decided by the legislature (if not the people directly), not by a bare majority of the supremes.
Posted by:pro-marriageOctober 10, 2008 1:02:13 PMRespond ^
Part of what I think is driving the decline in anti-gay feelings is the fact that those people realize they've been used.

It's the old fool me once thing. My father though signed a petition in FL to get a gay marriage ban on the ballot. I called him on it, told him it was wrong of him.

Why? Because his only son has been in a relationship with another man for 16 years now. Don't we deserve the same protections covered by marriage?

I won't stand for being a second class citizen. It's why today I wrote both my state Speaker of the House and President of the Senate calling them obstinate [deleted]s.

I did this because if a certain divorce challenge is brought before the RI Supreme Court on the equal protection clause of our Constitution (Article 1, Section 2) it will invalidate the Family Court Act as well as grant marriage equality.

I can't wait for the legislature to go back into session in January.
Posted by:Tony PelliccioOctober 10, 2008 1:04:13 PMRespond ^
Overall, the gay population is too smart to fall for what is obvious pandering by McSame. His campaign is in a serious tailspin and everyone knows it.
Posted by:Rayo-XOctober 10, 2008 1:07:57 PMRespond ^
Gay marriage will always be an issue until "Dems" and "liberals" stand up and accept it as a basic right. As long as clinton's mantra of "don't ask don't tell" lives on, and as long as old man biden opposes it, and obama does not address it, it will keep popping up and biting them in the arse. Newsom has done the right thing, Nader has done the right thing - accept it as fact and make it a non-issue. Only then will people recognize republicans as the hypocrites the are (Case in point: Pete Knight, the Republican state senator who wrote California's gay marriage ban. His son, David, married his partner in San Francisco in 2004.) and we will all be free to move on as a healthy society.
Posted by:RalphOctober 10, 2008 2:10:28 PMRespond ^
It was easy for the GOP to use gay marriage as a wedge issue in 2000 and 2004 but I don't think it will be effective this time around. We didn't have anywhere near the kinds of financial problems facing us then as we do now. As Mahr would say "this elections too important to vote BBQ"
Posted by:JaredOctober 10, 2008 2:40:05 PMRespond ^
Hey. I'm 73 and I voted against the anti-Gay Marriage amendment here in Arizona (on an early ballot). But then again, when I ran for Queens Borough President in NYC in 1969, I had the Gay Activist endorsement (and I'm heterosexual).
Hopefully with people like Ellen DeGeneres and Jay Leno speaking out the ban in California, others will see it isn't the end of the world as some would hasve us believe.
Posted by:Arnold KnackOctober 10, 2008 4:32:06 PMRespond ^
It helps the mentally challenged wing of the GOP by giving them another "issue" to talk about. These are the same people who send out emails about II Corinthians and all that talking snake BS.

So while they sit around at rallies yelling "KILL HIM" and "TERRORIST" and all the other circle jerk stuff they do, now they can add "GAY SYMPATHIZER". They'll have to come up with something else, it will probably be "[deleted] LOVER" or something equally offensive.

My, what a lovely country we have here. The guy on the next computer to me is in the midst of getting Irish citizenship. I hadn't thought of that, I'm thinking more along the lines of Canadian.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 10, 2008 5:49:55 PMRespond ^
El tiempo ahora esta! No espere! Canada necesita su voz! Hasta luego.
Posted by:JaimeOctober 11, 2008 12:32:52 AMRespond ^
PS to the guru...

Before I posted here I was a spaceman, a cowboy, and a secret agent.

That's the cool thing about the Internets, you get to be everything you want! Oh, I left out world-famous brain surgeon.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 11, 2008 12:11:40 PMRespond ^
If there is truth in the seemingly reliable rumor currently circulating, concerning the sexual orientation and partnered status of a prominent member of McCain's permanent staff, he and his surrogates would be wise not to touch this as a campaign issue.
Posted by:Phil FullerOctober 11, 2008 3:26:05 PMRespond ^
Dianne Feinstein is a disgrace to Democratic Women
Posted by:kellyOctober 11, 2008 5:16:59 PMRespond ^
Can gay marriage help McCain?

With whom?
Posted by:hquainOctober 11, 2008 6:33:36 PMRespond ^
Hey Willy,

Do we have to sic the management on you. You just may be breaking the rules. Tsk, tsk.

Can I also surmise from your posts that you are doing so from a library? Keep it legit, no porn now.

Just sayin...
Posted by:JimmyOctober 11, 2008 8:07:21 PMRespond ^
I knew it was you all along, "Jimmy", you have a certain style.

No prob... consider it done.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 11, 2008 8:09:28 PMRespond ^
First, this is not a case of second class citizenship, as a neurotic LGBT individual is apt to characterize having coped throughout adolescent and adult life by engaging in passive-aggressive and histrionic behavior. The goal is to address the antisocial behavior of the APA(s) and ABA in their blatant attempts to normalize neurotic behavior and its associated paraphilias without the benefit of empirical analysis to support their position using gay marriage and civil unions as a means to knowingly promote the placement of children in "borderline"(LGBT)caretaker environments, regardless of the gender or its socioeconomic status. Such professional behavior can be considered no less than unethical, if not criminal behavior by neurotic legal and medical professionals. When push comes to shove in a courtroom setting, the LGBT professionals will back down if arguments are presented in terms familiar to the APA(s) and the ABA.
Posted by:RJLigierOctober 12, 2008 6:31:56 AMRespond ^
Why in God's name does some state Supreme Court have to always choose the weeks preceding a national election to issue a major decision on gay rights? As an appellate lawyer, I know they can issue decisions whenever they wish. I agree with the rulings extending the plain meaning of equal protection of the law, but I disagree with the necessity of forcing it into the frontline of the public consciousness when there are such dire problems facing each and everyone of us which should dictate the outcome of the election. I know, I'm not gay, and to those who are no other issue is more dire, and I do appreciate that, but I don't think it does service to the cause to risk forcing it as a frontline issue in such a critically important election. I know the courts, not the parties make these timing choices, and I wonder at their motives, and the internal compromises which drive them, but please, if we're as politically tone deaf as the Republicans, we'll suffer their same fate sooner than we ought, or can afford.
Posted by:StaggslawOctober 12, 2008 8:20:48 AMRespond ^
Honestly, if gay marriage is the most important issue for you in this bad economy you are an idiot. I mean, really who cares. If gays want to get married and be misreable like the rest of us, then fine. I do think marriage is between a man and a woman, but letting gays marry is not a threat to your marriage. Blaming gay marriage is just a scapegoat for your own marital issues.
Posted by:Common SenseOctober 12, 2008 9:15:40 AMRespond ^
You'll get yourself in trouble every time calling homosexuality a "birth defect." Not that I think you're wrong...but the gays get very militant when you throw it in their face. They known homosexuality has to be at least partially genetic. And advances in genetic analysis make it probable that the genetic condition that causes homosexuality will be able to be diagnosed and fixed in the womb. Expect this to be a reality in less than 20 years. And when it is, you're going to see the gays screaming about how wrong it is to "fix" the problem. But parents won't listen to them. They will want children that can grow up normal and give them grandchildren.
Posted by:eruthOctober 12, 2008 9:34:27 AMRespond ^
As a gay married man in California, I'd like to apologize to all my liberal friends for being such a source of anxiety for you, considering my basic civil rights are "too much, too fast, too soon." Maybe we ought to put our relationships on hold until the polls show a healthy support of my rights. That way you won't have to lose sleep over any of this. Again, really sorry my rights throw a wrench into your plans.
Posted by:Tony in L.A.October 12, 2008 9:55:00 AMRespond ^
Homosexuality is indeed scientific and natural. It's been documented in thousands of species of animals and has been around humans since they first evolved.

Can someone tell these people that the world is facing overpopulation issues which could threaten our basic natural resources. What's that? Gays can't conceive? Thank Jesus, there's still hope!

Meanwhile, all these daughters of conservatives are getting knocked up at 16 and being forced to keep the baby. *tsk tsk*, haven't heard of condoms, dear? Here's the number to the nearest branch of Planned Parenthood.

This whole 'gays are wrong because they can't have kids' is absurd. I think almost 7 Billion people on the Earth is enough right now, isn't it? We could stand to have a negative birth rate for a few years (Not that it will happen, of course).

Posted by:Pie-KunOctober 12, 2008 10:57:14 AMRespond ^
How can a court "legalize" anything. To be legalized, requires a law. The MOST a court can do is affirm or deny a law legal standing. The article proves - point positive - that radical courts are redefining America - and the dictionary - to fit their inane positions. The purpose of a marriage is to create the nucleus of a family. 2 people of the same gender are UNABLE to create a family. Case Closed.
Posted by:RusstyOctober 12, 2008 11:04:45 AMRespond ^
Tony...

Thanks for the post and the reality check.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 12, 2008 11:10:22 AMRespond ^
Wexler is simply put, a fool! The issue liberals point out is tolerance but it is not about conservatives' tolerating anything. It is about a demonic spirit that is present in our society. Specifically it is about homosexuals who have an evil spirit in them. I realize you don't really understand where I am coming from but regardless, at least I can say you heard the truth from someone.
Posted by:MoseleyOctober 12, 2008 11:25:58 AMRespond ^
Damn Moseley, that's pretty good. You make up the delusion in your mind that every gay person is a demon (I believe Clay Aiken has his own Satanic church up in San Fran.) and then you feel no guilt when you discriminate against them!

The lengths humans will go, it never ceases to amaze~
Posted by:Pie-KunOctober 12, 2008 11:40:16 AMRespond ^
Pie-Kun...

Watch out, here comes another barrage from the talking snake crowd.

All religion is codified superstition. The GOP has learned how to manipulate that superstition, which is rampant and in my opinion out of control in what is supposedly the most advanced nation on earth.

It's sickening, it really is.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 12, 2008 11:50:16 AMRespond ^
Just think, when the comprehensive history of Civil Rights are written, we had liberals push for the end of slavery, liberals push for women's suffrage, liberals push for segregation ... then a gutless generation of hand-wringing liberals who were too afraid to come right out and stand up for gay marriage because it wasn't quite winning in the polls.
Fortunately this generation's kids will be the ones who right this wrong, but the cowardice displayed by far too many on our team in this generation is to the entire progressive movement's eternal shame.
Posted by:MikeOctober 12, 2008 11:51:25 AMRespond ^
Gay Marriage could help McCain. If he can get Barack to divorce Michelle and marry him instead, I'd say that's his best bet to living in the White House.
Posted by:LlliberalOctober 12, 2008 12:01:33 PMRespond ^
thank you and i enjoy being a stinkin republican. i love making messes.
my friend is larry craig....
Posted by:www.gopOctober 12, 2008 12:52:53 PMRespond ^
The year that the gay marriage ban passed in Virginia, they also elected progressive Democrat Jim Webb into the Senate. The ban passed with 57% of the vote and there is no way that could happen if it wasn't at least relatively popular across party lines.

And yes, it broke my heart that the cradle of democracy has become a hotbed of discrimination.
Posted by:dejahOctober 12, 2008 1:32:18 PMRespond ^
Obama says he doesn't support same-sex marriage either. Maybe he should continue to spread that word. I disagree with him, but apparently, it's ok for Democrats to be hypocrites and still be praised as "progressives." Republicans, on the other hand, who hate same-sex marriage are bible-thumping neanderthals. As a gay person, I am personally offended. It doesn't matter what you party affiliation is. If you stand against glbt rights, then you are heterosexist. Don't dress it up in liberal rhetoric, because I can see through it.
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 12, 2008 1:34:48 PMRespond ^
To the poster who wanted to know if homosexual tendencies are manifested in species other than human: The answer is yes. Same sex attraction has been observed in both the animal and avian worlds and in roughly the same percentages as found in humans -- 10%. Visitors to a NYC zoo have for years watched a penguin "couple" dubbed Sam and Dave care for a stone while other penguins are guarding eggs. Breeders of animals have long noted that some animals are "gay." Recently, Australian sheep ranchers caused a furor when they raised the issue of putting down gay sheep to protect the profit margin. People heard alarm bells -- first sheep, then people?
Posted by:demfortruthOctober 12, 2008 1:41:15 PMRespond ^
I am a lifelong Democrat from Philadelphia. Homosexuality is a sickness of the mind, and choice and the cancer of society. I am a real Democrat, and I look forward to helping defeat the Godless Obama!!! Civil Rights are for black folks!
Posted by:Joe NormalOctober 12, 2008 2:31:21 PMRespond ^
To Trollstein -- Sorry that I was not clear. Research indicates that about 10% of the human population is gay, as well as 10% of all animals in each species and 10% of all birds in each species. It is also true that animals such as chimps engage in same sex activities at times -- and sometimes not.
Posted by:demfortruthOctober 12, 2008 3:08:37 PMRespond ^
I've come to a conclusion after several years of reflection. Who cares if I can legally marry or not? This is my concern: can I have someone in the ICU with me? Can my pension be doles out to someone? These are fundamental issues which involve civil liberties. What if I am asexual, have no family, and only a close friend to make decisions for me while incapacitated in the hospital? These are very real issues, rare but real. Therefore, I don't feel I need a sorry government to confirm my choice to be with and make a commitment to someone for the rest of my life. What I need is a more compassionate government which is interested in protecting my ability to work and find housing. That is far more important than some "I do's". The only reason gay marriage is getting more air time is because it distracts the population nicely from realizing there isn't a discrimination clause protecting lgbt people in matters of employment or housing. Many straight people are surprised when they find out there is no federal or often no state legislation regarding this matter even if they don't agree with gay marriage. Sometimes I believe Republicans brought up gay marriage to create an anti-gay backlash so as to put a damper on the crusade for gay civil rights in general.
Posted by:MarkOctober 12, 2008 3:18:55 PMRespond ^
People can really be so stupid. How has gay marriage interferred with straight marriage? How? Tell me! You can't. It's ridiculous that two adults cannot share their lives together, as they please, whether they are straight or gay. The people who use the Bible to admonish everyone else with have no clue. They select sections of it that they want to so they can try to get others to act as they please- stupid stupid people. I take offense at anyone who is so cold to another human being that they lack the understanding of love between ANY two people, up to and including marriage. Call it 'Civil Unions' for EVERYONE. That should solve it. Marriage is just a word, just a word. Get real!
Posted by:alanOctober 12, 2008 3:41:17 PMRespond ^
Jimmy -- Perhaps you should expand your knowledge of the constitution beyond your civics book. The "all men are created equal" language is not even from the constitution but from the Declaration of Independence, which was not ratified by any state in the union. Also, you raise the same tired argument about needing an amendment for every "right" that society deems constitutional. Well, let's take your argument to its illogical conclusion with a few examples.

You talk about the term "men" being expanded to men and women in the constitution. Well, holding aside the problem noted above about the language you cited being part of the Dec. of Ind., the Equal Rights Amendment to the constitution was NEVER ratified. The only explicit "gender equality" component of the constitution has to do with voting -- nothing else. Do we need to have another constitutional convention before we can ban gender discrimination?

Also, let's take your cherised freedom of speech, protected by the First Amendment. Read the amendment. By the explicit text of the amendment, it only applies to Congress -- not to state governments ("Congress shall make no laws...."). So, states can ban speech all they want IF we take the constitution literally, as you have suggested.

I could go on and on but you get the point. Which right are you willing to give up that is not explicitly listed in the constitution? Probably only those with which you disagree.
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 12, 2008 3:41:21 PMRespond ^
hey you stinkin republicans.
how are you going to feel on nov. 5th, when you see the headline: OBAMA WINS IN A LANDSLIDE.
thanks for leaving us the GODDAMN MESS.
Please do us all a favor and move to the south and take larry craig with you.
Oh for all you republicans who dont remember larry craig.
He is the republican senator from Iduho who likes to hang out in restrooms and well you know be disgusting. i think all republicans are like Larry Craig.
so have a nice day on Nov. 5th when you wake up and see the headlines:
OBAMA WINS IN LANDSLIDE AND HAS TO CLEANUP THE GODDAMN MESS THE GODDAMN republicans and LARRY"the restroom king"Craig made....ha ha ha ha
Posted by:buddy loveOctober 12, 2008 3:45:15 PMRespond ^
Joe, you aren't a democrat.Or a republican for that matter. All you are is an idiot!
Posted by:alanOctober 12, 2008 3:50:08 PMRespond ^
does any one have Larry Craigs phone number.
i am a disgusting republican and i am going to move to Alabama.
i heard that the restrooms are very nice there.
well i am off to Dixie....
Posted by:fun guyOctober 12, 2008 3:51:39 PMRespond ^
i wish i had larry craigs phone number.
he stood me up.
you know how long i waited in that stall for him.
i am going to move to alabama too.
that will be the new state to hide if you are a disgusting republican.
ask larry craig. the us senator from iduho.
we republicans have to stick together, if you know what i mean.
i heard that mccain and larry craig are b buddies. is that true .
see you all in alabama after obama wins.
have a nice day on nov. 5th when you lose....
Posted by:you got itOctober 12, 2008 3:59:09 PMRespond ^
Buddy Love - you really need to chill out. I'm a progressive...black and gay. I hate conservative ideology, but I also hate self-righteous and hypocritical liberals. Obama has rejected same-sex marriage, but this article is directed towards conservatives. It only mentions his opposition in passing and fails to mention that McCain voted against the Bush-sponsored constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.

Also, despite the fact that FactCheck.Org and most leading economists blame the financial meltdown on consumers ever-extending themselves, refinancing their homes to spend needlessly, banks making risky loans and the securitization and distribution of that debt throughout the world, Democrats still point to "deregulation" as the cause. That's just STUPID. Deregulation did not cause this meltdown, neither did the tax cuts. Instead, it was very low interest rates and consumer and bank greed. This is not a "Republican" or "Democratic" problem. It was completely bipartisan. Until liberals are honest, they will just give us "more of the same." What's the difference between having conservatives who lie and liberals who lie? Not much in my opinion.

Besides, even if deregulation caused the problem, then you need to attack Joe Biden, Bill Clinton and Rubin for supporting it. Reich - an Obama advisor -- also supported NAFTA, as did Biden. This all sounds like "smoke and mirrors."
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 12, 2008 4:03:35 PMRespond ^
First, I enjoy respectful debate. And to continue, I fully understand the differece between the Dec. of Indepence and the Constitution. My previous post does not mix up the two.

Question: If you deem you have a right beyond what is enumerated in the "Bill of Rights" of the Constitution, from where does it eminate? Hence a Constitutional Convention.

Let's not dirty the water with a descrimination argument. The subject is rights, rights afforded under the Constitution. And NO, states cannot override the Bill of Rights.

"Which right are you willing to give up that is not explicitly listed in the constitution?" Again, which are these? And from where do they eminate?

Maybe you need to re-address your grievances, Equal Rights Amendment, towards the U.S. gov't.

Lastly, as for the same old tired argument statement, it goes both ways.
Posted by:JimmyOctober 12, 2008 4:55:17 PMRespond ^
Under the constitution, equal protection is a "right" -- so discrimination arguments do not muddy the water; they are part of the water. Speaking of water, you missed the boat on the Bill of Rights question. The Bill of Rights passed to protect people in the states from the national government -- not from state governments. That's why I mentioned the First Amendment, which explicitly only bans "Congress," rather than any state, from banning speech or religion. So, again, which of the Bill of Rights would you give up? Which other unenumerated rights would you give up? The notion that we have the right because it's in the Bill of Rights is far too simplistic to entertain -- when the very language of some (like the First) demonstrate that they were directed towards the feds.

Also - what do YOU make of terms like "privileges and immunities," "rights," "equal protection," and "due process," which are contained in the document, but not defined at all? Also ,the Ninth Amendment itself says that the people retain "rights" not listed. It was a warning against the very argument you are making -- that all rights are already in the document. The document itself proves you wrong.
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 12, 2008 5:08:11 PMRespond ^
PS: The Ninth Amendment (at the end of the Bill of Rights, along with the 10th): The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage OTHERS retained by the people.

The constitution does not define or list these "other" rights, but it certainly tells us that the fact that the Bill of Rights lists some rights, that others exist. And the 14th Amendment gives us "privileges and immunities," "equal protection," and a right to "due process of law" where life, liberty, or property is at stake. Please note that none of these terms is defined, including "liberty," which could have many meanings.
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 12, 2008 5:13:31 PMRespond ^
Great report
Posted by:FrankOctober 12, 2008 8:18:47 PMRespond ^
Gavin Newsom has conveniently and selfishly "absolved" himself of responsibility for Kerry's loss in close States like Ohio... I have not! As a gay man in a 19-year relationship, with the same man, this is what I think....

To all of our gay brethren who just don't get it.... you've made your bed, now lie in it!

The arrogance of pushing the gay "marriage" issue every 4 years, when we are in the midst of the national presidential election cycle, is exactly why Democrats have lost close elections.... Four years ago it was Gavin Newsom "performing" so-called "weddings" on the steps of City Hall and now it is the CA Supreme Court decision that is energizing the far Right... hopefully, they won't be able to make it a national issue in states like Ohio, Pennsylvania and Florida...

Guess what?.... If you are not elected to the White House, then you don't get to choose who will serve on the US Supreme Court.... Gaining equality by recognized "civil union" could be lost for at least a generation, if not more, if the Democrats lose this election.... DO YOU UNDERSTAND!!!!!??????
Posted by:Glenn RiddellOctober 12, 2008 8:28:15 PMRespond ^
There is no evidence at all that John Kerry lost the election for any reason other than the fact that he was a lackluster, uninspiring candidate who had to hold a focus group before he could answer a simple "How are you?"

I thought Mother Jones was a liberal publication. Its web site sure draws a lot of superstitious anti-gay bigots!
Posted by:Sportin' LifeOctober 12, 2008 9:11:52 PMRespond ^
This issue shows how radical Obama is and why he is going to lose once the American people hear the truth. Americans do not support the gay agenda. They never have and they never will. JOHN MCCAIN WILL WILL WIN AND AMERICA WILL REMAIN FREE!
Posted by:Big MacOctober 12, 2008 9:20:27 PMRespond ^
BM....

I would ask you to explain how Obama's position on this makes him a "radical" but it's obvious I'd be wasting my time.

And you're wrong about McCain. He's going to lose and lose badly. This week his campaign is going from the toilet down the tube towards the waste treatment plant. It will be hitting the sewer line about Wednesday at 9:00 Eastern.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 13, 2008 4:20:04 AMRespond ^
Glenn Riddell - you can't blame Gavin for Kerry's loss. That's ridiculous. This country is conservative, and they will point to anything to justify their conservatism. Kerry lost states like Nevada and New Mexico, and I don't think it was over same-sex marriage. He also lost Iowa. It is hard to predict how countermovements will behave. I think it is scapegoating to blame gay people and their allies for this country's ignorance.

Also, do not expect the Supreme Court -- even liberals on the Court -- to rule favorably for gays and lesbians on this issue UNLESS states do so first. The court constantly looks to states on "novel" rights questions. Can't you tell that's the strategy of the gay rights groups? They did the same thing to get sodomy laws overturned. Finding no relief in federal courts, they went state by state getting sodomy laws overturned before they went to the feds.
Posted by:Tony SmithOctober 13, 2008 5:18:02 AMRespond ^
The reason that Kerry lost in 2004 is that the Democrat party is not capable of functioning as an opposition party. They are cowards. They will not frame important issues, they play tag with the GOP who are expert at wedge issues and gay marriage is one of them.

As it happens, this time the GOP has handed them the election on a plate. All they have to do is take it.

However, saying that, it would not surprise me in the least if something happens between now and November 4 that causes the Dems to lose the election... if it's even held at all.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 13, 2008 7:12:53 AMRespond ^
We like to call ourselves a great country--but not so. Perhaps one day when and if we ever decide to separate the religious persepctives from the constitutional perspective, will we finally become a country where all Americans are granted their civil rights, where one group does not, indeed cannot infringe upon the civil rights of another group, will this country be even remotely a great country. This is a country that was founded on hypocrisy, and a bloody democracy that attempted the genocide of this continets indiginous peoples, wrongfully attacked Mexico and Canada, so no one should be surprised that even now in the year 2008 this government has yet to separate itself from the church. It is despicable that in an alleged free country that purports that all men are created equal, and endowed with the inalineable rights to pursuee happiness that civil right of one group of people can be voted upon by another group of people. This country still hasn't learned the lesssons of Martin Luther King--that the freedom of straight people is inextricably bound to the freedom of gay people.
Posted by:Ric CourtrightOctober 13, 2008 9:47:06 AMRespond ^
You could easily look these up yourself. There's plenty of information out there on field observation on the subject. (observed in the wild, not zoos. You can start here: http://www.nationmaster.com
/encyclopedia/Homosexuality-in-animals The entire page is interesting but if you go down to the references section you can easily get citations for the information on the page. You'll notice they are from university presses, Scientific American, American Scientist, Journal of Primatology, among many others. Look those up and read them and then go to their reference sections and you'll find many more articles to read.

Sorry if you felt I misquoted you. When you said that you thought people were cross wired, that implied mental illness.
Posted by:avacynOctober 13, 2008 3:55:56 PMRespond ^
Equal rights should not be decided by popular vote. The Constitution is supposed to protect the inalienable rights of all. Leaving it to a referendum or the legislature only shows the maturity of society (in its ability to come to logical conclusions regarding social justice) and more importantly may enable the restriction of the rights of some of the populace. The Constitution was created to protect the rights of the few from the prejudice of the many. The Constitution is interpretted by the Courts. While we do have some embedded right wing fanatics in the Supreme court the state Supreme courts so far seem to be doing a good job protecting the rights of minorities.

NO ONE SHOULD BE A SECOND CLASS CITIZEN. This is America! We have the Constitution. Suck it up and stow your insane bigotry. All Americans are due their rights and freedoms.

Arguing whether being gay is biological, a choice or whatever, while may establish the reason for someone being gay, does nothing for making us a just society. However someone is a gay person should have no bearing on how many rights are due that person. No one should be denied rights because they are a Methodist. No one should be denied rights because they are white. No one should be denied rights because they have asthma. Choice or not. Genetic or not. A person is who they are. No person should be alotted any more or less rights that another person. Anything less than equality is adject immorality. A debasement of what America is supposed to stand for. Our God given inalienable rights.
The Supreme Court needs to recognize and uphold the Constitution for the equality and rights of all the peoples of the United States.
Posted by:nakisOctober 14, 2008 4:43:57 AMRespond ^
Trollstein...

Regarding Kerry's campaign...

I was there and you are wrong. I was working on the campaign. I was assistant to the head of PR for the second half after the firing. Then I doubled as finance manager and legal consultant. Towards the end, when they really needed somebody competent at the top, I actually BECAME John Kerry.

-Wexler
Posted by:William W. WexlerOctober 14, 2008 8:43:27 AMRespond ^
I think there have been many studies proving that the marriage bans on ballots in 2004 did not increase voting enough to give the election to Bush. But this is a helpful urban legend for some.

The commercials running here in CA by the anti-gay forces are trying to scare people into voting to change our constitution enabling legal discrimination.

I certainly hope that people do not vote for this, and feel pretty confident this will lose here in CA.
Posted by:kimOctober 14, 2008 9:25:41 AMRespond ^
Religion is unarguably a choice. Sexuality is not (increasingly studies are showing this, but just logic should be enough - who would choose to be something that is discriminated against, ostracized and who even God doesn't love?), unless you are completely bisexual, then choice is not a problem, I guess. So why has the US bent over backward, in my opinion, to promote religion and push it down our throats, yet these same politicians who do that are usually the ones who oppose equal rights for gay and lesbian citizens (they never seem to mind taking our tax dollars equally, though). Is this a nation that really believes in the Bill of Rights and the Constitution or only when it serves our purposes and only for people we approve of? Sadly, the history of the US backs the latter. (And Wexler, you can get Irish citizenship if at least one of your grandparents is/was Irish, Canada would be a good choice, but so cold. For my partner and I we are now Spaniards. We live in a country that has given us our complete human and civil rights - yes, we are married with all the rights that offers, no second hand status of "civil unions". That is just being on the bus, but still having to sit in the back. And we thank our lucky stars every day for living in a truly free country - one that doesn't just talk the talk but actually walks the walk! 86%of Spaniards supported the Socialist government's equal marriage law. There is light out there and some of it is actually on this planet. Oh, and everyone has access to healthcare and our tax dollars are not bleeding into Iraq to help Haliburton et. al. "rebuild" what the Bush coven has destroyed.)
Posted by:FreeThinkerOctober 14, 2008 9:25:44 AMRespond ^
How could it? McCain is straight! Sorry, couldn't help myself.Newsweek recently made the point that McCain's prolife stance wasn't endearing him to the Roman Catholic Church because of his Hawk approach to war- which kind of condradicts Prolife! So now, they are predicting a Christian backlash to Gay Marriage that will put McCain over the top. Don't think so, McCain also has a problem with the McCain_Feingold-Thompson Act that is being used by the IRS to silence the Church from speaking out against the War in Iraq! Once the Church finds out who sponsored the Bill , John will not be in their good graces!
Posted by:Mr. IndependentOctober 19, 2008 4:07:57 PMRespond ^
Why must these matters be open to political debate? Are we so fearful that the institution of marriage will be stained?!?
Posted by:Liberal and ProudOctober 20, 2008 11:37:11 AMRespond ^
I invite disgruntled & progressive Americans to consider immigration to Canada where religious infiltration into politics is a no-no, and multiculturalism and racial & cultural harmony are the cornerstone of our society. Gay marriage is legal across our tolerant country.. (a number of our government officials at all levels are openly gay), We owe our precious Charter of Rights & Freedoms to our former Prime Minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau who stated emphatically that "the state has no place in the bedrooms of the nation."
Posted by:jarvisabOctober 29, 2008 5:36:32 PMRespond ^
I'm actually not too worried about a ban on gay marriage being ratified in CA, even if Prop 8 passes. In 1948 the ban on inter-racial marriage was struck down as unconstitutional. In that case, the attorneys arguing for the ban on inter-racial marriage had used the same reasoning as is being used by the supporters of the ban on gay marriage today--however, they lost in 1948 so precedent is set and will be the biggest factor here. Anytime you try to limit the rights of people, be they gay or inter-racial or any other configuration, inequality is created. And when there is inequality, it is easier to deem such limitation as being unconstitutional. The CA judge who ruled in 2005 that banning gay marriage is unconstitutional is a Republican---he may feel otherwise, but the law guided him to his decision. It will guide things again if Prop 8 passes. I sure hope it doesn't, though. Will save a lot of hassle. In our US Constitution, the only amendment that limited rights was Prohibition--and that was repealed as unconstitutional. All other amendments protect everyone's rights or bring equality (13th amendment, for example). I just don't see how with all this precedent brought to bear, that this thing would ever be amended to the CA state constitution.
Posted by:LizzieOctober 29, 2008 11:42:06 PMRespond ^
Hi my name is Jessica and I'm a co-producer of the Walden University Presidential Youth Deabate, which features over 40 minutes of exclusive candidate video answers to prerviously unasnwered questions. We're working really hard to inspire informed voting througout America and in doing so we created this debate debate.waldenu.edu

See where the candidates stand on LBGT rights in this video below
www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YKVvT44cNs
Posted by:Jessica November 3, 2008 11:08:11 AMRespond ^
Marriage is both a collection of cultural customs, beliefs and values and a collection of laws. In discussing this subject those different sides are often mixed, however.

Also, children are a rather natural part of marriage too, despite many married couples not having children, so children should never be forgotten either when discussing marriage and laws related to it.

It is difficult to change the cultural customs, beliefs and values of others. Generally, people have right to their beliefs and values. A major part of people still see marriage as a union of one woman and one man, and that is not likely going to change any time soon. They have every right to hold to that belief, especially as that belief has been so strong throughout the whole world, and for quite natural reasons too if you think about it a bit more. They also don't offend anyone's human rights by doing so, especially if they don't try to force their views on others. Neither side of the fight shouldn't be trying to force their cultural values on others as long as their values respect the basic human rights of those others too.

But I suppose we are talking about the laws related to marriage and not so much about some cultural customs and beliefs? Well, defenfing the human rights of homosexual people and gay couples could be done also without mixing the traditional marriage customs to the matter - like it is already done in many countries. You can have laws defending the rights of gay couples without trying to force the valus of some gay culture down everyone's throats.

What's wrong with the idea of registered partnership for gay couples, by the way? It can guarantee all the same legal rights to gays as married men and women have. We may never get to the situation where everyone would see gay marriages and couples being equal to heterosexual marriage anyway. It is not just about gays being a small minority, but also about the simple fact that homosexual people cannot get children, only maybe adopt them.

You're free to disagree but personally I'm not sure if I would see it a good thing if gay couples start adopting children a lot? Often when discussing the rights of children, many specialists assure us that - in an ideal situation - small children should have both a father and a mother (and biologically they always have, of course). So both a male and a female role model in the family for children. But suddenly, when discussing the gay rights, the whole matter is often forgotten, and even those very same specialists can suddenly turn their position and start claiming that all gay couples should have every right to adopt all the children they may ever want to have too.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not claiming that gays couldn't understand children at all, not to mention that they would be bad people. I'm sure many gay families could raise children just fine, or sometimes better than some heterosexual couples. But still, shouldn't we try to offer children the best possible and most balanced and natural families they could have? Most children would also want to know and live with their real biological parents if anyway possible. Many specialists agree that children should have both a mother and a father in an ideal family - that simple - even if they couldn't admit that in front of the huge pressure from those supporting the gay rights.

But I suppose that our western society sees the rights of sexual minorities (and sexual rights in general) so utterly important nowadays that they go even before children's rights too?
Posted by:ChewbaccaNovember 4, 2008 9:48:08 AMRespond ^
This is a moral issue. Not just a religious issue. Gays and lesbians need therapy. Gays HATE women and lesbians HATE men. Two people of the same sex do not constitute a marriage. I don't care if they are gay,but marriage is between man and a woman instituted by mother nature and GOD.
Posted by:Liberal Democrat November 9, 2008 1:18:06 PMRespond ^

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